I said yesterday that I was going to start documenting everything again, so here goes.
This morning Aaron asked me for more gas money, and when I said no he had enough and he should walk if he didn't think he had enough. He went nuts at me. I explained to him that you he was the one who had said he would walk to help save more money. And yet once again he was the one wasting money when it needn't be wasted.
He went off on a tangent saying that he should have money when you want it and that I'm the one who lies to him about money. That he can't get a job and that's why he's on the invalids benefit. Even though we both know that he's just lazy.
And I voiced my opinion on that by saying to him that being a lazy cunt doesn't make him an invalid.
He screamed at me asking "do I need to drag you outside and smash your head off the fucking concrete to get you to understand that I can't work and that my condition is permanent"
I didn't answer him and he screamed the same thing another 4 or 5 times.
I still didn't answer him and he said "yea that's what I thought"
But really. I wish he would cause I know that then I would never ever let him stay or be with me.
He said I should go get a full time job. Even though I already have work and I'm the one who looks after the house and our children 24/7.
He then walked into the kitchen where I was potting up plants with Dex sitting on the bench. He said to me "get your fucking shit off the bench bitch, it's in my fucking way"
When I said no and told him to use the space above the microwave he went nato at me again. Poor Dex was trying to wriggle back away from you on the bench. No wonder he has such anxiety issues. He's living on egg shells just like me.
He also told me to cancel the SKY and said if I got it installed he'd rip it out and smash the box when he got home today. Always looking for a way to punish me when he can't control me.
He then took the pots off the bench and shoved them across the floor so they crashed into the rug and tipped over everywhere. Dex got more and more upset.
I picked him up and said "come on bubs, lets go out since daddies being a meany" Aaron refused to let me leave he said I wasn't going anywhere and blocked the door. So I walked away to Dex room saying I'd ring someone to come get me or him them.
He followed me into Dex room and continued to yell at me. I went to walk out past him and he slammed the door in my face and held it shut so that I couldn't get out of the hallway let alone the house. So I called the cops. What else was I supposed to do, he was refusing to either let me leave with Dex or leave himself. I hate that he made me feel that I had no other choice. But I don't have anyone else to call on down here.
He kept yelling at me, asking what was I doing and why was I doing this all over $5 gas. I explained to him that he knew it wasn't cause of the gas money. It was because of how he was treating me over me saying no to giving him the gas money. I told him that I wasn't going to let him treat me like this in front of son anymore. I didnt' want him to grow up to think that that was ok or to be anything like him.
Wednesday, August 31, 2011
Monday, August 29, 2011
finally a chance to post again.
it's been a very long time.
But I've decided I need to start documenting everything again, as it's just getting worse and worse again.
Because Aarons so sure his friend Jeremy is into me that he hassles me about it all the time. Like it's all my fault if he is. For starters if he is it doesn't matter cause I'd tell him to fuck off. I don't cheat, never have and never would. But because of that he picks fights with me and makes it all my fault. Not once has he hit up Jeremy about it though. Nice to know he trusts his friends but not me.
I can't wait to be free of him. I'm going to WISE for some help as I don't really knwo how to do this on my own. I want to just save up some money and leave one day when he's not at home. But I don't think it's fair to Basty to have to change schools again and move away from his friends again. Plus this house is perfect for me for working and getting in boarder later for extra money.
I've had all these different ideas and plans running through my head. But I just don't think I have the strength to start all over again. But then I know if I tell Aaron I want us to go our seperate ways then he'll just fight me on it and then threaten to take Dex and start a big shit fight. He still can't face the fact that I'm totally miserable in this relationship and that he is the cause of that.
He has made no effort in the past 3-4 years to get a job, or help with the kids in any way shape or form. He's changed amybe 10 nappies total. The only thing he ever does around the house is cut fire wood and light the fire.
I cook all the meals, wash dishes, put dishes away. Wash, hang out, bring in, fold and put away clothes.
Clean, entertain, bath, bed time routine, it's all me. Put the rubbish out, bring the bins back in. Sew for my boys. Make sure the bills are paid and that Aaron always has what he wants so that he doesn't start a big shit fight over it.
Gotta go, Dex is awake. I'll write more later.
But I've decided I need to start documenting everything again, as it's just getting worse and worse again.
Because Aarons so sure his friend Jeremy is into me that he hassles me about it all the time. Like it's all my fault if he is. For starters if he is it doesn't matter cause I'd tell him to fuck off. I don't cheat, never have and never would. But because of that he picks fights with me and makes it all my fault. Not once has he hit up Jeremy about it though. Nice to know he trusts his friends but not me.
I can't wait to be free of him. I'm going to WISE for some help as I don't really knwo how to do this on my own. I want to just save up some money and leave one day when he's not at home. But I don't think it's fair to Basty to have to change schools again and move away from his friends again. Plus this house is perfect for me for working and getting in boarder later for extra money.
I've had all these different ideas and plans running through my head. But I just don't think I have the strength to start all over again. But then I know if I tell Aaron I want us to go our seperate ways then he'll just fight me on it and then threaten to take Dex and start a big shit fight. He still can't face the fact that I'm totally miserable in this relationship and that he is the cause of that.
He has made no effort in the past 3-4 years to get a job, or help with the kids in any way shape or form. He's changed amybe 10 nappies total. The only thing he ever does around the house is cut fire wood and light the fire.
I cook all the meals, wash dishes, put dishes away. Wash, hang out, bring in, fold and put away clothes.
Clean, entertain, bath, bed time routine, it's all me. Put the rubbish out, bring the bins back in. Sew for my boys. Make sure the bills are paid and that Aaron always has what he wants so that he doesn't start a big shit fight over it.
Gotta go, Dex is awake. I'll write more later.
Saturday, May 21, 2011
I finally told him
and by him I mean Aaron of course. That I don't love him the way I used to. It all came to a boil after he had a go at me again. No surprises there. Worse still was what he was having a go at me for. I had asked him to watch his language when their are kids in ear shot as he was swearing and yelling at his stupid game and Weston was playing in the lounge and could hear him. He totally nutted out at me, very embarrassing for me as Hayley was here with Weston.
She left and he just got worse and kept going. He was so loud that she rang to ask if I was ok as she could hear him yelling at me from the other side of the park where she lives.
Anyway it all came to a head and I told him that I don't love him the way I used to. That I haven't for a long time. And that I thought that him making some of the changes I asked him to would change the way that I feel about him, but it didn't. I still don't love him the way I used to, and I don't know if I ever will again. He broke down crying saying that he loves me so much and doesn't want to be without me and that he'll do what ever he needs to to make me love him again. He asked me to give him 6 months to fix things, I told him I didn't know if I could live through 1 more month like this. But he's still here and it's been a week since I told him all that.
Nothings changed, for the 1st day he was all over me, but he still doesn't help around the place, I still go to bed alone and get up alone and parent alone 80% of the time, I do everything and I mean everything around the house. And despite the promises that he made me he's gone off at me 3 times since then and not apologised once.
So I've got a few things to sort out in my head and then I'll be telling him he needs to move out, cause I know things aren't going to change, well at least not for the better. And I don't want to end up hating him, which I know will happen if he stays and keeps asking me to let him fix things then doing nothing.
I don't want to feel like this anymore but I loved him so unconditionally through all the crap and cheating and abuse and now I just don't love him anymore and don't want to be with him anymore.
So this is definitely the beginning of the end for me, I know he's not going to accept it, but he'll have to because I don't love him anymore. So if he refuses to move out then I'll take the kids and move out. It won't be easy starting all over again especially cause of my work, but if it's what I have to do with break up with him then I will.
I think he will resign himself to the fact that's it's not working and hasn't been for a long time and that he just needs to accept that and move on with his life and let me move on with mine.
She left and he just got worse and kept going. He was so loud that she rang to ask if I was ok as she could hear him yelling at me from the other side of the park where she lives.
Anyway it all came to a head and I told him that I don't love him the way I used to. That I haven't for a long time. And that I thought that him making some of the changes I asked him to would change the way that I feel about him, but it didn't. I still don't love him the way I used to, and I don't know if I ever will again. He broke down crying saying that he loves me so much and doesn't want to be without me and that he'll do what ever he needs to to make me love him again. He asked me to give him 6 months to fix things, I told him I didn't know if I could live through 1 more month like this. But he's still here and it's been a week since I told him all that.
Nothings changed, for the 1st day he was all over me, but he still doesn't help around the place, I still go to bed alone and get up alone and parent alone 80% of the time, I do everything and I mean everything around the house. And despite the promises that he made me he's gone off at me 3 times since then and not apologised once.
So I've got a few things to sort out in my head and then I'll be telling him he needs to move out, cause I know things aren't going to change, well at least not for the better. And I don't want to end up hating him, which I know will happen if he stays and keeps asking me to let him fix things then doing nothing.
I don't want to feel like this anymore but I loved him so unconditionally through all the crap and cheating and abuse and now I just don't love him anymore and don't want to be with him anymore.
So this is definitely the beginning of the end for me, I know he's not going to accept it, but he'll have to because I don't love him anymore. So if he refuses to move out then I'll take the kids and move out. It won't be easy starting all over again especially cause of my work, but if it's what I have to do with break up with him then I will.
I think he will resign himself to the fact that's it's not working and hasn't been for a long time and that he just needs to accept that and move on with his life and let me move on with mine.
Monday, May 9, 2011
Changes
well seeing as the Play Station Network hs been down for over 2 weeks now, you've had plenty of time for me and the boys. But this hasn't necasarily been a good thing. You all of sudden expect me to drop everything to pander to your needs. But I know that as soon as the network is back online you'll show no interest in me again.
The way you speak down to Basty really really fucks me off. The way you have to put your 2 cents worth in after I've already talked to or disciplined Basty is not needed at all. I told you how I felt and you went completely psycho at me about it. Telling me that you would say what you wanted when you wanted to who ever you wanted and if I didn't fucking like that then I could send him to live with his dad. Sometimes I think he'd be better off with his dad, I know he loves and needs me, but just to have him away from you and your stupid moods. You always take out your crappy moods on me and the boys. Like it's all our fault that the network is offline. I think not.
I'm working now and for the entire 3 days leading up to my 1st day of working from home, all I was worried about was you and your behaviour. I worry that you'll nut out at me infront of some elses child or the parents will hear you when they're dropping off or picking up their kids.
Thankfully you got called in to work this week. A blessing for more than 1 reason. So you're not here during the day. But as soon as you walked in the door last night you were swearing. I was standing there listening to you thinking oh my god how many times can you say Fuck. I'd had such a great day and in under a minute you killed it. Then you took off out to buy weed and smokes instead of spending time with us. I was like oh well. I still got to do my workout as Basty played with Dex while I did it. By the time you got home me and the boys were all fed/worked out, bathed and ready for bed. Then you were like waiting and expecting me to come to bed with you. So typical. You never come to bed early with me, but when you need an early night you expect me to go to bed early with you.
The difference is I stay up late and get up early. I can handle doing that, so I do most nights.
Then this morning after you've left for work you txt me saying that you're worried that I'm falling in love with someone else and that I don't love you anymore. I don't even know why you say stupid shit like that. What just because last night when you wanted sex I wasn't in the mood. But you eventually got me in the mood and we had sex. You did this sulky thing 1st though when I said I was tired and not in the mood. Like I was loosing this weight and not wanting you anymore and you wanted me even more now. I was like year well, you didn't want me when I was fatter but now you want me more.
I told you that I'm not in love with anyone else, there is no one else in my life for fuck sakes, other than you and our boys. What a totally rediculous thing to say. I barely have friends anymore and the ones I do have you're always jealous of. I can't leave the house without you accusing me of cheating on you. I'm just trying to have friends and be happy and feel like I have a normal social life. You're pushing me further away each day with all your stupid paranoia and the way you treat me, speak to me and our kids. I don't know how much longer I can last. But I won't be leaving you for someone else I'll be leaving you for me and my own sanity.
I'm not the kind of girl who needs to get a new man before she finishes with the last one. I know you don't understand that because you've always got a new girl before you finished with the last one. But I'm not that kinda girl and I never will be. I would be quite happy to be on my own.
The way you speak down to Basty really really fucks me off. The way you have to put your 2 cents worth in after I've already talked to or disciplined Basty is not needed at all. I told you how I felt and you went completely psycho at me about it. Telling me that you would say what you wanted when you wanted to who ever you wanted and if I didn't fucking like that then I could send him to live with his dad. Sometimes I think he'd be better off with his dad, I know he loves and needs me, but just to have him away from you and your stupid moods. You always take out your crappy moods on me and the boys. Like it's all our fault that the network is offline. I think not.
I'm working now and for the entire 3 days leading up to my 1st day of working from home, all I was worried about was you and your behaviour. I worry that you'll nut out at me infront of some elses child or the parents will hear you when they're dropping off or picking up their kids.
Thankfully you got called in to work this week. A blessing for more than 1 reason. So you're not here during the day. But as soon as you walked in the door last night you were swearing. I was standing there listening to you thinking oh my god how many times can you say Fuck. I'd had such a great day and in under a minute you killed it. Then you took off out to buy weed and smokes instead of spending time with us. I was like oh well. I still got to do my workout as Basty played with Dex while I did it. By the time you got home me and the boys were all fed/worked out, bathed and ready for bed. Then you were like waiting and expecting me to come to bed with you. So typical. You never come to bed early with me, but when you need an early night you expect me to go to bed early with you.
The difference is I stay up late and get up early. I can handle doing that, so I do most nights.
Then this morning after you've left for work you txt me saying that you're worried that I'm falling in love with someone else and that I don't love you anymore. I don't even know why you say stupid shit like that. What just because last night when you wanted sex I wasn't in the mood. But you eventually got me in the mood and we had sex. You did this sulky thing 1st though when I said I was tired and not in the mood. Like I was loosing this weight and not wanting you anymore and you wanted me even more now. I was like year well, you didn't want me when I was fatter but now you want me more.
I told you that I'm not in love with anyone else, there is no one else in my life for fuck sakes, other than you and our boys. What a totally rediculous thing to say. I barely have friends anymore and the ones I do have you're always jealous of. I can't leave the house without you accusing me of cheating on you. I'm just trying to have friends and be happy and feel like I have a normal social life. You're pushing me further away each day with all your stupid paranoia and the way you treat me, speak to me and our kids. I don't know how much longer I can last. But I won't be leaving you for someone else I'll be leaving you for me and my own sanity.
I'm not the kind of girl who needs to get a new man before she finishes with the last one. I know you don't understand that because you've always got a new girl before you finished with the last one. But I'm not that kinda girl and I never will be. I would be quite happy to be on my own.
Friday, April 22, 2011
Movng Forward with Positive Changes
I've decided that I need to stop looking at this relationship in such a negative light. I'm here and that's because I have chosen not to leave, or because I'm choosing not to have Aaron removed seeing as he wouldn't leave when I asked him to.
So either way I'm still in this relationship as I'm choosing not to end it.
I'm making a very conscious effort to be more positive and supportive of Aaron and what's important to him. I"m being more encouraging of him and the efforts he is making to change, no matter how big or small they may be. I'm making an effort to spend time with him when he's doing what he enjoys, playing his games on PS3. It was so nice being with him while he was playing yesterday and having him explain it all to me, was cute cause he was so animated while talking to me about it all. I felt like his girlfriend again, and it's been a long time since I felt like that in a good way.
I fell asleep watching him and woke up to hi lavishing me with kisses. It was an amazing day followed by a lovely night. I felt connected to him again. So I'm thinking that a little bit of effort on my part will go a long way. I'm going to help him build up his self esteeem so that he can be the man we both want and need him to be.
So either way I'm still in this relationship as I'm choosing not to end it.
I'm making a very conscious effort to be more positive and supportive of Aaron and what's important to him. I"m being more encouraging of him and the efforts he is making to change, no matter how big or small they may be. I'm making an effort to spend time with him when he's doing what he enjoys, playing his games on PS3. It was so nice being with him while he was playing yesterday and having him explain it all to me, was cute cause he was so animated while talking to me about it all. I felt like his girlfriend again, and it's been a long time since I felt like that in a good way.
I fell asleep watching him and woke up to hi lavishing me with kisses. It was an amazing day followed by a lovely night. I felt connected to him again. So I'm thinking that a little bit of effort on my part will go a long way. I'm going to help him build up his self esteeem so that he can be the man we both want and need him to be.
Continued......
I did the rest of the shopping in a kind of daze, trying not to collapse in a heap on the floor and bawl my eyes out. I was so socked and sad. But I just shut my mouth and kept going. The last thing I wanted to do was make it any worse.
By the time we got to the check out he was transforming back to nice Aaron. And as we walked out I stopped and got myself 2 scratchy tickets from the Lotto stand. Once outside he commented that if I won anything he wouldn't ask for anything, and what would I do if I won a million, I said I'd do him a favour and leave him since he hates me so much. I didn't yell it though just said it very matter of factly as that's how I was feeling. He said don't be silly I love you. And that was that, we went and got on the bus and went home.
It was all very surreal.
I still want to say to him "we need to talk about what happened at the super market the other day" I just can't though, cause I know he's gonna explode at me if I do. I guess over time it will all just get shoved to the back of my mind and it won't be an issue anymore. I just hope it doesn't happen ever again.
By the time we got to the check out he was transforming back to nice Aaron. And as we walked out I stopped and got myself 2 scratchy tickets from the Lotto stand. Once outside he commented that if I won anything he wouldn't ask for anything, and what would I do if I won a million, I said I'd do him a favour and leave him since he hates me so much. I didn't yell it though just said it very matter of factly as that's how I was feeling. He said don't be silly I love you. And that was that, we went and got on the bus and went home.
It was all very surreal.
I still want to say to him "we need to talk about what happened at the super market the other day" I just can't though, cause I know he's gonna explode at me if I do. I guess over time it will all just get shoved to the back of my mind and it won't be an issue anymore. I just hope it doesn't happen ever again.
Thursday, April 21, 2011
Super Market Abuse
Here's how yesterday went, I'm gonna break down as much as I can so as not to ramble on too much, like I usually do.
I got up at 7am with Dex and got him and myself ready for the day as we had to leave early so as to get everything done seeing as we were gonna be bus hopping for the day.
Aaron got up and got ready at about 9am and was ready to go at 9.30pm
We got on our bus at 9.55am - no dramas yet.
Got off the bus in Greerton and went to ASB where I banked my cheque from Smile City, took out our moneys for the day, got Aaron and I free coffees, and sorted out paying off my overdraft of $2000 seeing as my tertiary account expires at the end of this month, April 2011.
Went to the Asian shop and brought Aaron a lighter (that he moaned about) then went and got me some hena ($6 for 100grams)
Got on the bus and went to Gate Pa, Mitre 10 Mega.
Mitre 10 Mega, got a few lil things that Aaron wanted and a few cool things to put away for the boys for Xmas (all on my Q Card) also got the piece we needed to fix the door handle on what was Aarons gaming room, but is now Bastys room.
Aaron got very frustrated about this and I told him to watch his language as we were in public, I got told to Fuck Up, nice one right.
Got back on the bus and went to Mc Donalds on the corner of Waihi Rd and Cameron Rd. In the hopes of making Aaron a lil bit happier and there for making my day easier I brought him and Dex a Hunger Buster to share. Of course I indulged in a few chips and a few mouthfulls of sundae too.
Walked along to The Warehouse. On the way we stopped to watch a car that was on fire and watched the fire engine and fire men arrive to help.
The Warehouse. I got the kids 2 packs of marshmallow easter eggs so that I can do an easter egg hunt for them next week. Aaron found a game he wanted for the PS3 but I said I'd really like to get the boots I needed 1st seeing as the ones I have have holes in the bottoms so no good for winter, letting the rain in and all. And the shoes I was wearing were a size too small and killing my feet. He played all nice and said go get your boots 1st, but of course I couldn't find anything in my size and by this stage Dex was clearly over it, so I just told him to get what he wanted and we'd go do our grocery shopping.
Aaron got his new game for $35. I figured at least he was happy so maybe that would mean that he'd stay that way for the rest of the day.
I was trying really hard to keep him happy as I knew he hated having to do all this on foot since he lost his drivers licence. But only 2 months to go till he gets it back.
Walked across the road to Pak n Save.
Put Dex in the trolley and Aaron was pushing the pram as I did the shopping.
I complained about no decent meat specials and that I was so over it and just wanted to go home, but couldn't as it had to be done. Aaron said to just get what we needed for now and get the rest on Sunday when my mum gets here and she can take me. I said no I'd just do it all now, and that I was trying to keep it under budget so I had money left for shoe shopping with my mum once she got here, not food shopping.
Everything was fine, I kept joking with him cause he kept getting in my way with the pram, then he starting running into me from behind, and it was a joke the 1st time but after another 2 times it hurt and I turned around and told him not to cause it hurt. He went nuts at me in the super market and I said that it hurt and I didn't like it and all I wanted was for him to stop. He changed his tune and said it was a fucking accident and I was like then why were you laughing about it and doing it again and again. He nutted out at me telling me to get fucked and sort my fucking attitude out and that he was going to go home and I could sort the shopping out myself, I tried to ignore him and just keep doing the shopping but he kept going, it was so embarrassing I just wanted to disappear. It took all my might to not break down in tears right there in the middle of the super market.
I walked back a few isles to grab something I'd forgotten and this guy walked past Aaron and said something along the lines of "you should really watch what you say to your mrs in a public super market" Aarons response was appalling, as I was walking back I heard him YELL back at the man "mind your own fucking business or I'll punch your fucking head in" like what the hell. Then he continued on at me saying that next time somebody said something I had to back him up and tell them to mind there own fucking business. That this was all my fault, and that of course they didn't see how I treated him 1st and that I was just little miss fucking innocent.
I couldn't believe what was happening.
To be continued.....
I got up at 7am with Dex and got him and myself ready for the day as we had to leave early so as to get everything done seeing as we were gonna be bus hopping for the day.
Aaron got up and got ready at about 9am and was ready to go at 9.30pm
We got on our bus at 9.55am - no dramas yet.
Got off the bus in Greerton and went to ASB where I banked my cheque from Smile City, took out our moneys for the day, got Aaron and I free coffees, and sorted out paying off my overdraft of $2000 seeing as my tertiary account expires at the end of this month, April 2011.
Went to the Asian shop and brought Aaron a lighter (that he moaned about) then went and got me some hena ($6 for 100grams)
Got on the bus and went to Gate Pa, Mitre 10 Mega.
Mitre 10 Mega, got a few lil things that Aaron wanted and a few cool things to put away for the boys for Xmas (all on my Q Card) also got the piece we needed to fix the door handle on what was Aarons gaming room, but is now Bastys room.
Aaron got very frustrated about this and I told him to watch his language as we were in public, I got told to Fuck Up, nice one right.
Got back on the bus and went to Mc Donalds on the corner of Waihi Rd and Cameron Rd. In the hopes of making Aaron a lil bit happier and there for making my day easier I brought him and Dex a Hunger Buster to share. Of course I indulged in a few chips and a few mouthfulls of sundae too.
Walked along to The Warehouse. On the way we stopped to watch a car that was on fire and watched the fire engine and fire men arrive to help.
The Warehouse. I got the kids 2 packs of marshmallow easter eggs so that I can do an easter egg hunt for them next week. Aaron found a game he wanted for the PS3 but I said I'd really like to get the boots I needed 1st seeing as the ones I have have holes in the bottoms so no good for winter, letting the rain in and all. And the shoes I was wearing were a size too small and killing my feet. He played all nice and said go get your boots 1st, but of course I couldn't find anything in my size and by this stage Dex was clearly over it, so I just told him to get what he wanted and we'd go do our grocery shopping.
Aaron got his new game for $35. I figured at least he was happy so maybe that would mean that he'd stay that way for the rest of the day.
I was trying really hard to keep him happy as I knew he hated having to do all this on foot since he lost his drivers licence. But only 2 months to go till he gets it back.
Walked across the road to Pak n Save.
Put Dex in the trolley and Aaron was pushing the pram as I did the shopping.
I complained about no decent meat specials and that I was so over it and just wanted to go home, but couldn't as it had to be done. Aaron said to just get what we needed for now and get the rest on Sunday when my mum gets here and she can take me. I said no I'd just do it all now, and that I was trying to keep it under budget so I had money left for shoe shopping with my mum once she got here, not food shopping.
Everything was fine, I kept joking with him cause he kept getting in my way with the pram, then he starting running into me from behind, and it was a joke the 1st time but after another 2 times it hurt and I turned around and told him not to cause it hurt. He went nuts at me in the super market and I said that it hurt and I didn't like it and all I wanted was for him to stop. He changed his tune and said it was a fucking accident and I was like then why were you laughing about it and doing it again and again. He nutted out at me telling me to get fucked and sort my fucking attitude out and that he was going to go home and I could sort the shopping out myself, I tried to ignore him and just keep doing the shopping but he kept going, it was so embarrassing I just wanted to disappear. It took all my might to not break down in tears right there in the middle of the super market.
I walked back a few isles to grab something I'd forgotten and this guy walked past Aaron and said something along the lines of "you should really watch what you say to your mrs in a public super market" Aarons response was appalling, as I was walking back I heard him YELL back at the man "mind your own fucking business or I'll punch your fucking head in" like what the hell. Then he continued on at me saying that next time somebody said something I had to back him up and tell them to mind there own fucking business. That this was all my fault, and that of course they didn't see how I treated him 1st and that I was just little miss fucking innocent.
I couldn't believe what was happening.
To be continued.....
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